Inappropriate Behavior?… or Inappropriate World?

(This is a slightly modified copy of the end-of-year news summary I posted on my noblesavageworld blog yesterday. The subject matter fits here as well.)

The big term in the news this year, at least here in the States, is inappropriate behavior.

If you look around the Internet, you find that inappropriate behavior is not just being exposed throughout American entertainment, politics, sports, and business… it’s also in American schools, in Australian schools, in healthcare, in nursing homes, in Dubai, in China… just about everywhere.

And it’s especially rife throughout nature.

Recently I enjoyed watching a quirky BBC nature series on Netflix called Round Planet. In the first episode a lonely male polar bear wanders the vast frozen Arctic, hunts for seals, eventually finds a mate, has sex, fights bloody battles with competing males, manages to hold onto his mate’s affections… and then suddenly the mating season is over.

“Now it’s time for the male and female to go their separate ways,” says the jolly commentator, “her to the joys of motherhood; him back to fighting and trying to kill things. Nature loves a gender stereotype….”

You get the idea. All of the rowdy antics among the animals of Earth over the course of the Round Planet series start to hit uncomfortably close to home for human society…

  • where dads often pressure their sensitive, artistic sons to play rough sports where they get beaten, bullied, and scorned…
  • where governments train their young men to brutalize other young men then send them to war where they get killed and mutilated…
  • where girls attract, boys pursue, girls resist, and boys persist, leading to that dramatic line between romance and assault…
  • where slaughterhouses kill, slice, dice, process, and package animals for human consumption on a massive scale….

Across the eons, Earth has become a rather onerous place where living things kill and eat each other to survive, and contend with frisky forces to breed… not just the frisky forces of competing suitors but also their own inner drives.

Humans on Earth, especially males, seem to have inappropriate behavior hard-wired into their genes and their neurochemical makeup.

Reflecting on the history of Earth, you begin to wonder if the term inappropriate human behavior is redundant.

Life itself, here on Earth, could well be viewed as inappropriate.

Indeed, life on Earth is described that way by those who live in finer worlds.

The famous English explorer Richard Francis Burton, a rugged scholar and adventurer, died in 1890, eventually got settled into the afterlife, continued his explorations in his new world, and then reported back to us (INIT) a century later, through a computer text:

For four days we had been traveling upstream on the river and had reached a strip of land called “Fireland” by the natives. Swejen had asked us to “see what was going on” since interference frequencies were reported from that area. Although our contact field was not disturbed greatly it had become a mild nuisance. As always, I followed Swejen’s wish. To be truthful, I had secretly hoped for an opportunity to leave the electric range in the kitchen and once again breathe the fresh air of the world of Marduk.

I had no trouble finding a few men who wanted to accompany me. They are upright, honest men with stout hearts who could be relied upon in times of danger. On our trip up the mountain we stopped twice to rest and to eat something. Every time I bite into a juicy bit of meat I have to remind myself that I am not eating part of an animal, but synthetic food. By God, it tastes better than anything I ever ate on that darn earth. 

The last sentence suggests that in Burton’s new world (i.e., the spirit world), life doesn’t have to kill life to survive. Coexistence is the culture at the third level of the afterlife, and memories of “that darn earth” seem rather brutal and barbaric.

Burton’s afterlife partner, Swejen Salter, reported to us in another contact that sex and intimacy are also more refined in the spirit world than on Earth.

You do not put away your sexuality, as it is a truly human characteristic. Sexual partnerships exist, provided both partners harmonize and desire it….

So sex at the third level is enjoyed by mutual consent between individuals who resonate with each other, not driven by hormones and aggression as it often is on Earth

I suspect that spirits residing in most of the spirit realms, and also extraterrestrials inhabiting other material worlds, all view life on Earth as needlessly brutal… i.e., inappropriate.

The violent images we see in Sci-Fi movies like Star Wars or Guardians of the Galaxy or Alien, with all sorts of hostile extraterrestrial creatures, are just our own fears of terrestrial savagery projected into the universe by the minds of directors and script writers.

In reality, I believe, coexistence is the rule throughout most of the cosmos. Brutality on Earth is the rare exception, thanks to our hormones and egos and our cataclysmic beginnings.

Our brutal nature is the reason why western religions state up front that to be human is to be a “sinner.” Whatever the word “sin” means to them, you can be sure it traces back to the unruly nature hard-wired into our carnal bodies and minds.

So… for us to judge each other as inappropriate, as we’ve been doing a lot this past year, might be somewhat sanctimonious or hypocritical.

I’m certainly not suggesting that the sleazy behavior of men that damages women and is being exposed this year should be mitigated or pardoned. I’m just trying to put it all into perspective in the bigger picture. While alive on Earth we are responsible for our choices, even when they’re made rashly by our egos and hormones. And we must make account (sooner or later) for our actions and decisions that harm others.

The term inappropriate is misleading. The terms illegal and immoral are also problematic.

I prefer the term noble-savage. If we can unravel our human nature and distinguish our spiritual (noble) qualities from our carnal (savage) qualities, then we might have a better playbook for being nicer to each other.

What I’ve learned through ITC contacts is similar to what all the great religions have taught down through the ages:

  • Noble values include love, honesty, trust, good will, respect, concern for the less fortunate, service to the community, and the betterment of humanity. These are the qualities that make us more spiritual and universal.
  • Savage values include fear, deception, mistrust, contempt, desire, selfishness, thievery, and callousness. These are the compulsions that drag us down into earthly dramas.

Life on Earth is a continuing struggle between the noble and savage forces within us and around us.

Peace on Earth starts by going within to foster the noble forces inside us.

Then we let those noble values boil over into our families, schools, companies, and governments so that policies and regulations reflect our noble side.

At that point the Earth will start to become a more “appropriate” world… and then ITC will flourish here.

So, here’s wishing you all a happy holiday and a noble new year of inner exploration and burgeoning peace.

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6 Responses to Inappropriate Behavior?… or Inappropriate World?

  1. angusmacro says:

    I’m enjoying no longer feeling any desire to consider such behaviors. Increasingly I’m content just to stand back and look on as you might at a school’s playground. Observing all but relieved I’m not having to respond to it.

    • Mark Macy says:

      I agree, it’s good to get to the age where those unruly forces have settled down, and life becomes more relaxed. I too sometimes feel that observing Earth from this age is like watching raucous kids on the playground. Gotta be careful, though, even old guys watching playgrounds are stereotyped nowadays. 🙂
      Happy new year, Mac…

  2. Well said!

    Sexism is the new racism. We will continue to turn over a “new leaf” over and over again…until we remove all divisions and are then considered truly equal. At that point there is not even a need for gender, save reproductive reasons.

    We’ve always found ways to separate each other through division….religion, nationality, gender, sex, age, sexual preference, height, lanuage, education, so on and so forth. It’s like peeling an onion…

    Fat awareness came first, then cholesterol, fiber, sugar, saturated fat, vegans, trans fat, grass fed, GMO, free range…..see where we’re going? It is inevitable…layers of awareness.

    Enjoyed your post Mark.

  3. kate says:

    Thanks Mark this is a good reminder of how to cope with the savage side. There is always a battle going on with savage thoughts…sometimes it’s hard to know what’s noble. Thanks for all your hard work and a Happy New Year to everyone 2018

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